Love Smart: Get out of your Comfort Zone and into the Game
March 24th, 2008 · No Comments
So my mother thinks I need help in the dating department—and after my fiasco with Manny the ski instructor (see How Not to Get a Date: Just Say No), who could disagree? She told me to read Love Smart by Dr Phil.
Ha, here it is, page 163: “You need to get out of your comfort zone.”
I think I said No to Manny because I was going into unfamiliar territory. It’s been a long time since I’ve talked to someone I don’t know for more than five minutes. (Won’t he think I’m boring?)
I know why Manny liked me—it was all in the body language. At one point during our lesson, I zoomed down to Manny, ahead of the other students, and stood in front of him like a proud five-year-old: Ta da! Here I am.
Maybe I just need to take the same energy to the apres ski pub that I have on the slopes.
Tags: Advice · Emotional Freedom · Personal Success · Relationships
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